My recipes

Calming nerves
Take a long deep breathe, a short walk and visualizing a happy scene from the past completely unrelated to the present crisis in great detail.


Fighting stress
Check out the situation rationally, understand what is there that I can do to better it, do it, send up a quick prayer and then trust in God to deliver me from the problem.

Feeling loved

Re-reading old mails from friends and lovers.






Relaxation
A nice book, munchies, a tall chilled drink, mountains in the horizon and a nice tummy to rest my head on.


Feeling low
A quick bout of shopping for stuff,
could be as mundane as daily groceries just remember to pick up one or two feel good things (chocolates work for me).





Ending a going nowhere argument with the partner
A tight body-enveloping hug and a long kiss
These are my recipes...what about yours?

Comments

Ramya Ramadurai said…
i like the last one.. :D
rayshma said…
i need to try these.. NOW!
saima said…
Go for a massage, go for a cycling trip in the hills :) to add a few!!
Just reading your post had a wonderful calming effect.

And as for the previous one, I agree totally that a holy book is one which has a deep effect on the self.
Iya said…
i came here thinking u will share some cool bong recipes, but me liked more what me read here...
Hot oil hair massage works like magic to relief stress!!!
Pinku said…
Galadriel....try it..its really effective...u just need to keep your ego out of the equation..

Rayshma... go ahead and in the meantime do share your own recipes too...


Saima...a massage or facial really do relax...I agree...but cycling in the hills I am not so certain about...anyways living in delhi I have very lil oppurtunity to try it out...

Sucharita...thanks... but i am looking forward to hearing about your recipes for handling the cats and the big tiger :)
Pinku said…
Hey Iya,

will pucca put up some bong recipes next time...but first i want ur chicken biryani recipe....

and yes hot oil hair massage is bliss but then i need someone else to do it...not on my own..
Nice :)
I really like the recipe while Feeling Low. That works for me too.
Pinku said…
Latin Sardar: u feel low??? whats a guy like you doing with feeling low??/ not on at all...
comfort books.

beach - the soothing regularity of waves always seem to add a perspective to things.
Trevor Penn said…
There ain't no punching bag like an old friend...
Solilo said…
Loved these recipes to live our life. :) A nice book, tall chilled drink in my back yard..love that.
Keshi said…
Some very helpful tips there! ty so much Pinku.

Altho when Im stressed, I buzz ard like a manic bee lol!

Keshi.
Mampi said…
The last is the best. I did that, and I feel great.
Pinku said…
cynic..living in land locked delhi...the sea is but a dream ....but u are right the waves do soothe...

Trevor....and i consider u one...so beware!!!


Solilo....thanks :)


Keshi....lovely to see u here...cant imagine u stressed...u r too cool for that

Mampi: finally u are back!!
am so glad... :)
Preeti said…
lol...

u know when i speak a lot ...that i normally do ,...kiss is the best way to make me shut up ...hehehe

long lonely walks work for me ...and also body massage ...thats ideal for a streesful day ...

and if nothing works ...shopping ....and then after a tiring day ...dress up ur best and have couple of drinks at a cool pub ...come home and slepp till next afternoon ...and u r back in track ..
pradipwritenow said…
Pinku
Good recipes and I try them with success every time. It seems that you have a positive approach to life. But I tell you only one thing few times exceptions do happen and discard exceptions as they are unruly.
Pinku said…
Preeti...that dress up and drinks sounds especially good ;)

Pradip: i dont have much else than that positive approach...hehehe
Kalyan Karmakar said…
sure shot stuff...though I'd trade the mountains for the sea beach
Trevor Penn said…
LOL! Glad to be of some help to you. :-)
Pinku said…
the knife...welcome to the enchanted land...the sea is so close to you... i am just so far off...

:(

Trevor :)

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